Every person has a dream, a desire, a goal, an ambition from the moment they pass their childhood phase. This dream pushes them to work harder towards their aim and it becomes a sole purpose of their life, the reason of their living. As it is said that life without a goal is like a race without a finish line: youre just running to nowhere!
“We all die. The goal is not to live forever, the goal is to create something that will.” – Chuck Palahniuk
The choice or inclination towards a specific goal may vary from person to person.When on one hand, one person will dream to become a well-known religious scholar then on the other hand, another person’s dream will be to become a famous entertainer. Whatever the choice may be, the question arises: “Shall a person sacrifice their family values for the sake of their life goals? Is it worth it?
It’s a very important thing to consider and think upon because family of some individuals may appreciate their goals and even help them achieve it as it will not cross or violate any of the family values but unfortunately, it could be opposite!
Eventually, an individual will have the only choice to choose between either their family or their life goals and it would be the toughest decision ever.
As leaving an ultimate purpose and aim of your life is difficult, it’s even more difficult to sacrifice your family for its sake, who was always there for you through every thick and thin.
”I am the person I am today because of all the people who have shaped me in every way.” Nicole C. Anderson
The family values differ for each person depending upon the religion they follow or the society they live in etc. so, it is important for a person to recognize the fact that either their family values are in accordance with their religious, social and moral values or not? Is it worth leaving your life goal for? Or they are just a bunch of some self-made rules and regulations, only causing a hindrance in the way of their goals?
When a person recognizes this fact, it will be easier for them to decide what to choose and what to leave!
Whatever decision is taken, it must be kept in mind that God comes first. Keeping in mind all the points that what is right and what is wrong, a person should be satisfied with whatever decision they take and trust His decree.
”When you focus on being a blessing, God makes sure that you are always blessed in abundance.” Joel Osteen